How to stop being jealous - Gospel message

Hello, peace!

Before starting this article I would like to say that this feeling or emotion which we'll discuss today, the jealousy, is undoubtedly very complicated and distressing. Jealousy is a negative trait that has accompanied man since the beginning, that bad feeling has caused enormous suffering and painful, especially for those who are victims of it, but also in people of whom he proceeds.We all know how difficult it is for us humans, proud and flawed as we are working with our weaknesses, problems and difficulties, especially when we fought alone. But what is very hard or even impossible for us men is possible with God. That's what we always believed. And with him is that we rely so we can try to understand and change this feeling so negative and evil that disrupts the life of many people and, unfortunately, also takes a lot of destruction wherever he goes.
Jealousy is a jumble of feelings and sensations that involve very different emotions. It is a very difficult thing to explain. However, let's start this article with some definitions:- Jealousy is a painful feeling caused by a love, passion or very troubled relationship;- Jealousy is the result of the uncertainty that one feels when she is sure of a loved one's infidelity or suspicion that infidelity should it occur.- Jealousy strong desire to not share with anyone else what one loves.- Jealousy is the burning desire to take possession and frustrated about something or loved one.
As this last quotation we can see that it is much like greed, because who wants to have in order for you to have another person is wanting what is next.Thus, we can also say that being jealous is coveting. And finally we can say is jealous envy because envy is the sister of greed. In short: feelings are all that cometh of evil.Very good!
When someone wants to have greed or that someone else is a person oppressive, possessive, a person who does not respect freedom and not the free will of others. This is something very serious. Let's see why:Let's look at what we said the Lord of life, our Lord Jesus Christ:28 Come unto me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will refresh you.29 Take my yoke upon you and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest for your souls.30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. - Matthew 11:28 to 30

Not even the Lord Jesus put upon us that we gave ourselves our life to Him And it looks that we are His. If you do not know you and I both were created by Him and for Him We're His lost sheep of the flock, a flock of which He is the supreme Good Shepherd.I could tell as he is meek and humble? He speaks thus:"Take my yoke upon you and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest for your souls" He just asks us to accept Him and do not impose it.Now we can understand how evil a situation where a person wants to dominate in any way and have the other person, and even our own God does or has done this to us.In respect of the worst things that human beings can feel the jealousy, greed and envy, all birds of a feather, are in second place.Secondly? What is the feeling which comes first?Hate?No! It is the lack of love!The lack of love is the first in the list of the worst feelings a human can feel. Hate it actually ranks third because he is exactly the result of those feelings that occupy the second position. The lack of love is the one who gives birth in the hearts of man to greed, envy and jealousy.After these early malignant feelings settle in the heart of man they open the door to hate crimes, revenge and all sorts of evil and the devil.The person who has his heart in some of these horrible feelings should seek their release as soon as possible. Someone might say:I know I have these feelings and evil, just as I do the one I love suffer, I suffer a lot with it. I have no peace. But what to do? I've tried everything and can not get rid of those bad feelings. Anyone know anything I can do to get rid of these evil feelings?
5 Commit thy way unto the Lord, trust him, and he will do. - Psalm 37:5

The man he can fight more than he ever going to get the best life that God has reserved for him alone. With its own forces man can not reach the fullness that our God has designed.The Lord Jesus Christ had already warned us about this situation. He said he could do nothing without Him. What I understand that this word is nothing and nothing is ready. And I'm sure that word is also referring to the much needed transformation of our feelings, emotions, and also of our character.If therefore the Son makes you free, be free indeed.- John 8:36

For this purpose the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil's work. 1 John 3:8

So if someone really wants a change of life that person must then speak with the Lord of Life. Only the Lord Jesus Christ can transform and liberate man from all the chains of the devil.Delight yourself in the Lord, and he shall give thee the desires of your heart. Commit thy way unto the Lord, trust him, and he will do. Salmo 37: 4:05From the moment one indulges body and soul to our God, the Lord Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit of God the Holy Trinity begins to work and change everything that is not according to God's heart and not that he has reserved for their sons and daughters.When the Holy Spirit of God enters the life of a man or woman He changes the whole story of the person. He teaches. He guides. He gives wisdom.It gives balance, safety and ability to truly love.Therefore if anyone is in Christ, new creation, old things are passed away, behold all things have become new. - 2 Corinthians 5:17

Little children, ye are God and have overcome them: because greater is he that is in you than he that is in the world. - 1 John 4:4

1 From whence come wars and fightings among you? Come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?2 lust and do not have, therefore matais. Envious, and can not obtain, ye fight and war. Ye have not, because ye ask not.3 Ye ask and receive not, because you ask amiss, to your lusts.4 You adulterous people, do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity with God?Therefore whoever wishes to be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.James 4:1 to 4On the other hand a person who wants a real change can not be living after the flesh, being dominated, being dominated by the passions and feelings of this world of sin.Such a person should look day after day an even closer relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ because of that relationship with Him is what will change and freedom. We can not forget that an unruly passion for someone or something is also idolatry.1 If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ sitteth on the right hand of God.2 Set your minds on things above, not on things on the earth;3 For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.4 When Christ who is our life, shall appear, then shall ye also appear with him in glory.5 Put to death therefore your carnal inclinations, sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry;6 For which things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience;7 where also once walked, when ye lived in them;Col 3: 1-75 For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh: but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.6 For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be;8 and those in the flesh can not please God. - Romans 8:5 to 8That's it! Those looking to give more importance to spiritual things and put your faith and trust solely in the hands of our God, the Lord Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit of God in your life you will see the wonderful transformation, liberation and fullness that can only happen through of infinite wisdom, power and love of our God.

My brother! My sister! Love is something that should be quiet. It should be peaceful. It should be a companion and, especially, sincere and faithful. If any relationship is not so because this is a union that is sick, and if so, when the Lord Jesus Christ come He will heal, liberate, restore and put everything in place. Believe it!Therefore,Let's love moreLove is freedom!Love is life!Love is just LOVE.Really loved to be loved. Give love and receive love.
Amen and thank God. Stay in the peace of the Lord Jesus Christ.